A wedding or commitment ceremony is a special occasion for a loving couple. Making a donation in honor of their declaration of love is a great way to celebrate their special day, but also a great way to support HRC's work.

All of these couples are now happily married! If you would like to make a contribution on behalf of these new unions and marriage equality for all couples, please click here.

Each donation made in honor of a couple's wedding or commitment ceremony will be recognized as a symbol of their family and friends' love and celebration of their union, as well as, a recognition of your commitment to equality.

If you know the wedding date of the couple, please use the following shortcuts to navigate the wedding registry archives:
Winter 2012; Spring 2012; Summer 2012; Fall 2012

For questions or to add your ceremony to HRC's wedding registry, please send your name and ceremony date to Weddings@hrc.org.

Peter and Brian
January 9, 2012

Peter and Brian met over 6 years ago when marriage was the last thing on their minds. How wonderful that now, following the efforts of organizations like HRC and the Empire State Agenda they have not only thought about it, but they are doing it.

Together they say, "We are thrilled that we can be married in New York but saddened that Northern California, Brian's spiritual home, does not afford us the same opportunity. We hope that through the continued efforts of HRC we will no longer have to choose between state's rights but that we will have equal rights under the federal laws of this country."

"To all of our friends and family, thank you for the years of support. To HRC, thanks from the bottom of our heart. XXOO"

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Kathleen and Bradley
January 21, 2012

Kathleen and Bradley say, "After over eight years of bliss - including roughly 8 jobs, 3 cars, 1 Masters Degree and a loving dog - we are thrilled to be getting married on December 16, 2011. We are fortunate to live in the Commonwealth of Massachusetts, a state that allows all of our neighbors to marry who they love," say Kathleen and Bradley.

"We would like to encourage our friends and family to support HRC and the work that they do to ensure equality of all relationships across the country. There has been incredible progress toward marriage equality in the eight years that we have shared together but the work is far from done. We would like for you to stand with us and HRC to make sure everyone has the same right to happiness that we enjoy in Massachusetts. Please allow HRC to keep up their good work to spread the love!"

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Brian and Christopher
January 21, 2012

Brian and Christopher say, "After 22 years together, we were thrilled to be married on November 26, 2011, surrounded by our closest family in New York City. We have shared life in four states and seven homes over the years and have enjoyed the loving support of our families. Upon learning of the legalization of gay marriage in New York, we were excited to return to our home state to be married."

"We would like to encourage our friends and family to support HRC and the work that they do to ensure equality of all relationships across the country, in lieu of gifts." They say, "please allow HRC to keep up their good work to spread the love!"

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Christine says, "Jess and I were deployed to Iraq when we found each other. It's hard to think of finding the person you love in a war zone. Once we came back to the states, we did long distance until I made the decision to get out of Active duty Air Force so we could be together. Even with the repeal of "Don't Ask Don't Tell" gay couples are not allowed any benefits, like being stationed together, forcing committed couples to choose between serving and being with their partner. I chose Jess.

Christine and Jessica say, "Since both of us have served our country (Christine for ten years and Jess for four) we feel the need to help the gay rights movement. Everyone deserves to have the simple freedom of marrying the person you love."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Jennifer and Katie met on a dating website called plenty of fish.com. They talked a few times through the site and then went to text messages and than to phone calls. Jennifer and Katie met on May 1, 2010. It was one of the best days of their lives. They talked for hours and Jennifer had never connected with someone like Katie before. Katie came over that night to Jennifer's apartment and they have been living with each other ever since that night. Jennifer and Katie moved fast, but they know this is good for the both of them.

"We want people to donate to the Human Rights Campaign in lieu of traditional gifts so that more states will finally give the lesbian community more rights."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Colleen and Jacob
March 3, 2012

Colleen and Jacob met online using the Chicago Reader's personals site. They love exploring Chicago and other cities together.

They say, "We are excited to celebrate our love and partnership with our family and friends, and we look forward to the day when this right will be available to all people. We firmly believe in marriage equality, and we encourage you to donate to the Human Rights Campaign if you are moved to do so."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Emily and Cassie
March 5, 2012

Emily started attending beauty school in Mesquite, Texas. Shortly thereafter, Cassie started attending the very same beauty school. It took a while to finally get together, but its been heaven ever since for Emily and Cassie. They were engaged in Summer of 2011 and plan to be married by 2012.

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Hester and Jennifer
March 9, 2012

Hester and Jennifer have been together 11 years and they say, "after waiting for what seemed decades to have a civil union, we are very happy and will be forever. We've been on the Raise Up panel and pray every day for Indiana to recognize us the same rights as other states do with a true marriage."

They say they would like their friends and family to donate in their honor because, "It will help us get the rights we deserve as citizens of the United States. Only God can judge and we believe, and pray every day, as any other person does, so why should the people not recognize what is meant to be. We don't judge so why should anyone be turned away. Some people think they do what God says but we ask them to read John 3:16 and tell us. We ask you to help us and please donate to the HRC."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Jesse and Derek
March 17, 2012

Jesse and Derek say, "The calendar tells us we've been together for 6 years, but we couldn't imagine our lives without each other. Visit our website at derekandjesse.com for more about our story.”

"We are so happy to have such loving family and supportive friends and we appreciate that you'd like to share that gift with the world through a donation to one of our favorite charities. A donation to the HRC helps us all inch toward a more perfect union -- and more perfect unions."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Sara and Toby
March 24, 2012

Sara and Toby say, "When we get married, our commitment to each other will be recognized by our families, our communities, and our government. We feel so fortunate to be able to marry each other, and we believe that everyone has the right to marry the person who they love. We look forward to the day when all couples, regardless of sexual orientation, will share the right to publicly declare their commitment to each other and have that promise fully acknowledged by their society. With that in mind, we are asking that our friends and family who feel moved to give us a gift in celebration of our marriage does so in the form of a donation to the Human Rights Campaign, a civil rights organization that works for marriage equality."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Jenna and Lindsey
March 24, 2012

Jenna and Lindsey met in 2009 at a popular lesbian spot in Houston, TX. Lindsey's a punk-rock-y, animal loving, semi-vegetarian artist who works in the corporate world by day, and Jenna's a craft-y, scrapbook-y, soap opera watching girly, girl who works in the non-profit sector. They both felt an instant connection with each other and couldn't be happier about what a perfect pair they make. Jenna and Lindsey moved in together later that year and although it has taken Jenna some time to get used to Lindsey's love of animals and the menagerie of pets living with them, they can't get enough of their happy family life at home. Jenna & Lindsey got engaged on Christmas Day 2010 and are now enjoying all of the excitement of planning their (lightly) Alice in Wonderland themed commitment ceremony. Jenna and Lindsey have wonderfully supportive friends who they look forward to celebrating with on their big day and are thrilled about sharing both the joys and the... not so joyous moments... of married life together.

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Pooja and Chuck
March 31, 2012

Pooja and Chuck love each other very much and are looking forward to celebrating their wedding. Thank you for your gift! They would like you to donate in their honor because they are fully committed to marriage equality.

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Anthony and Tony
April 1, 2012

Anthony and Tony say, "We have been together for 5 years, met in a train station in NYC, saw each other and knew it was love."

They would like their friends and family to donate on their behalf so that they can also support the community.

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Stefannie and Sharla
April 2, 2012

Shar and Stefannie met through mutual friends and everyone could tell they had an instant connection. It's not too often you see a couple who has almost everything in common, but with this too it's very different. From their love of music and family to their unfailing faith, they are truly a match made in heaven.

Another amazing thing about them is the way they care for each other. Stefannie is an amputee after a car accident when she was 17, and some days has so much pain that she cannot move. But Shar is there to help her, bring her meals, and just hold her through the pain when needed. Over the past few years Shar had developed a seizure disorder, as well. Stefannie has learned to care for her, schedules appointments, and work with her daily on speech, memory, and social skills.

They say, "We would like to donate to the HRC because we would love one day for others to legally marry and enjoy the same rights and freedoms as every other couple."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Gen and Crystal
April 4, 2012

Gen's perfect woman is intense, mysterious, and deeply emotional. She has a poker face, argues her point and won't back down when challenged. Her perfect woman is confident, stylish, listens and is truly interested. She is a wonderful mother, committed to her relationship and perseveres. Not to mention, she is super sexy.

Gen's perfect woman is her fiancée, Crystal.

Gen and Crystal fell deeply in love and to this day are inseparable. After many years together and raising a wonderful (and at times challenging) 5 year old son, the sparks have remained. They have dedicated time and love and truly feel they share a deeply rooted soul connection. Gen and Crystal have been through both amazing and trying times, but through it all they have remained best friends and dedicated partners.

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Lisa and Faye
April 14, 2012

Lisa and Faye say, "We're excited about our commitment and hope that someday ours, along with millions of others, is recognized as a legal marriage in every state and by the federal government!"

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Susie and David
April 21, 2012

Susie and David say, "We have mutual friends and for a number of years we would see each other at events, parties, etc. We were both at a place in our lives where we didn't think we were looking for relationships when our friends set us up. As we spent time really getting to know each other, we realized that we shared many hopes and dreams and we fell in love. Working for a better tomorrow has been a big part of both of our lives, and now it is a labor of love we will share as a family."

"To be able to stand with each other in front of our family and friends and say "yes" with the support of that community --- that is a joy we want available to all loving couples. When we decided to marry, we did so with renewed dedication to working for the day when all our friends have the same opportunity. Everyone who joins this work makes that day closer to reality!"

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Leah and Erin
April 28, 2012

Erin and Leah met while working at the Container Store in San Diego. Leah was taking over Erin's position so they spent every day together getting to know each other and falling in love. Four years later, Erin proposed and they plan to say their vows on the beach with their feet in the sand.

They say, "HRC not only fights for every individual to have the right to marry whomever they love, but they work tirelessly for all LGBT issues. We would be honored if our friends and family donated to this amazing organization, not just for us but for all lesbian and gay couples."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Joanne and Daniel
May 5, 2012

Joanne and Daniel say, "We met being huge nerds! We both participated in National Novel Writing Month, a challenge where the goal is to write 50,000 words in a month. We have meet-ups to write, to talk about writing, and to procrastinate on our writing. We met at one of these meet-ups, but we didn't really get started talking until we played political catchphrase bingo at the vice-presidential debates in 2008, where we looked over each other's bingo cards." Joanne continues, "Neither of us won, but he kept my hands warm that night!"

Joanne and Daniel both love presents, but they both highly value the work that organizations like the Human Rights Campaign does for LGBT community and allies around the country. They say, "It would mean so much to us that our special day could help make the world a better place for LGBT people and allies like us!"

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Tracy and Andrew
May 5, 2012

Tracy and Andrew say, "We met in Ann Arbor, Michigan, brought together by mutual friends and a love of music. We are so blessed to celebrate our love and commitment surrounded by our family and friends."

"We believe all people should have the right to marry the person they love. A donation to HRC on our behalf is a gift to support and promote the freedom of choice in marriage."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Sallee and Andrea
May 5, 2012

Sallee and Andrea say, "When we met online, we were both just looking for new friends. As soon as we met in person, it was love at first sight! The moment our hands touched, the rest of the world melted away and it was just the two of us. We could have both easily said we loved each other 5 minutes after we met. We can honestly say that for the first time in our lives we are truly in love."

"It didn't take long to know that we wanted to share in a lifetime commitment together. Less than a year later we are ecstatic about the opportunity to express our love among our friends and family at our wedding May 5, 2012."

Sallee and Andrea say, "We are looking forward to Marriage Equality in California. To have our marriage solidified in our home state—legally—is our goal!"

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Tiffany and David
May 5, 2012

Tiffany and David say, "We are happy to have found each other and so excited to celebrate with our family and friends in Solvang, California. We look forward to the day when the right to marry is granted to everyone. A donation to HRC on our behalf is a gift to support a cause that is near and dear to our hearts."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Mindy and Andrea
May 5, 2012

Mindy and Andrea say, "We met through mutual friends and over the years, we saw each other at music shows, hurricane parties and the grocery store. One thing lead to another and here we are!"

"We are so excited about our commitment, and while it’s not "legal", it is still very much real. A donation to HRC is a step toward marriage equality for us, and millions in our LGBT community."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Matthew and Catherine
May 6, 2012

Matthew and Catherine say, "We met in Los Angeles, May 4th 2008 and we are very much in love."

"We believe it is wrong that same sex couples are denied the rights we are about to enjoy. In lieu of gifts, we ask that our friends and family help us right this wrong by donating to HRC."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Gregory and Kent
May 12, 2012

Gregory and Kent say, "'How Lucky Are We'-in our modern era, we are an on-line dating success story. Meeting first for an ice cream date that lasted 2 hours... we have never looked back since that day, 5 1/2 years ago. We are very fortunate to have loving and supportive families and friends that can share our wedding celebration with us."

"We are very fortunate to live in Washington, DC, a very welcoming and affirming community. Thanks to the efforts of HRC and local leaders, we are able to legally marry where we reside. However, there is so much more work to be done in teaching tolerance, and advancing equal rights for all people, in all communities. A contribution to HRC, supports our "family values" of inclusion and equality."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Jonathan and David
May 14, 2012

Jonathan says, "My husband and I met six years ago. In that moment we knew there was something different and special about each other. Our personalities complimented each other, and just being around each other we were both more at peace with the world than we were before. Here we are now, almost six and a half years later, and now newlyweds, married in the State of New York. Our marriage HAS made a big impact on our lives, and actually caused me and David to draw closer to one another. We announce with pride that we are now married, as we are so proud to be."

"My husband and I would like for people to donate to HRC instead of buying a traditional wedding gift so that HRC can continue to fight for the rights of all individuals, especially the right to marry. Marriage is a very big commitment, and we are so happy to have been married. However, we know that right is not as accessible to everyone as it should be. We would rather see more couples happily married, and believe with the assistance of HRC, marriage will someday soon be accessible to everyone regardless of sexual orientation."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Elizabeth and Stephen
May 19, 2012

Stephen and Liz met during their first year of graduate school in San Francisco. They quickly became friends, and that developed into a deeper relationship. After many fun and loving years together, Stephen first asked Liz if she would marry him after dinner at their apartment one night, and she said yes. Stephen asked again in a romantic glade on a backpacking trip in Yosemite National Park, complete with poetry. Not scared of Stephen's camping grime or bears, Liz said yes again!

Liz says, "Stephen and I strongly feel that everyone should have the same opportunities to share in the community support that we will receive from being married in the presence of friends and family. We know that no matter our legal status, we and other couples would maintain the same level of commitment to each other, but we feel that there is something special about being married! We feel that having separate but equal legal designations just doesn't cut it."

"We hope that you can join with us to support a brighter, more equal future by donating to HRC in honor of our wedding, in support of people who do not yet get to share in the same joy that we do."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Joseph and Joseph
June 1, 2012

Joseph says, "Joseph & I met in the hospital! Yes, the hospital. He was visiting his cousin and I was visiting my brother. I know I know... that's weird but we did meet at the Hospital. First, what caught both of our attention was that we had the same first name. Then, we discovered we have the same last name! Some say it’s weird but we say it was meant to be!!!"

"We would love it if you can make a donation to HRC because we have been given the opportunity to find our soul mates and HRC helps make sure that everyone is allowed to do so as well."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Sara and Larson
June 2, 2012

Sara and Larson met in Helena, Montana in June of 2009, where they played on the same pub trivia team. Sara is a public health professional from North Carolina and Larson, an economist, hails from New Mexico. They currently live in Denver, Colorado.

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Jodie and Linda
June 2, 2012

Jodie says, "Linda and I met through some friends and family of ours. We had known each other for quite some time and we were talking through numerous text messages for about four years before we officially united. We officially became a couple in December of 2006. We have been together for five years and I am so grateful to have her in my life. She is definitely a blessing and a true love."

Jodie and Linda say, "We would like our friends and family to donate to the HRC on our behalf because we are active members and supporters of the HRC."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

John and Amanda
June 2, 2012

John and Amanda say, "We met in high school way back in the year 2000. We live in Seattle, WA where we love to spend time outdoors and take in the great art and music scene in our city."

"We've waited a long time to get married ourselves and we'd like it if our marriage could do a little bit to reduce the wait for our friends and family that can't yet legally get married."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Laura and Deanna
June 2, 2012

Laura says, "We first met at Pride in June of 2008. I was instantly smitten with Deanna and her big smile and wanted to have a first date with her. She lost my number, and it was 6 months before we crossed paths again and got to go on that first date. We both knew right away there was going to be a second date, and the rest is history. We're crazy in love and we're really excited about our wedding day."

Together they say, "Our friends and family love and support us, and we couldn't be more thankful for that. We hope that they all will become advocates for our civil rights as well. HRC is essential in that fight, and a donation in our name is admirable and appreciated."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.
 

Leah and Lisa
June 8, 2012

Lisa and Leah met in 2007, in a fingerspelling class at a community college as part of an American Sign Language Interpreting Program. They began talking and hanging out after class but it wasn't until after the summer, that they spent apart that they really began their friendship. Lisa and Leah spent so much time on myspace and texting.

In November of that year, Leah had a party for her birthday and Lisa came with a friend. They had a great time hanging out so much so that Leah didn't want Lisa to leave. Sadly, the friend Lisa came with had to go and so Lisa left as well.

A great opportunity arose a week and a half later when it was Lisa's birthday! An attempt was made to have a great get together but in the end, it was just the two of them. That night was their first date. They've been through a great deal of life to get where they are today. But Leah & Lisa are stronger and closer than ever and are ready to take on the world together!

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Jimmy and Elizabeth
June 9, 2012

Jimmy and Elizabeth started dating over the summer preceding their junior year at Davidson College. They decided to begin their relationship right before studying abroad in Denmark and Bolivia, respectively. Over the next seven years, they have lived in various cities, flown multiple airlines back and forth, and expressed thankfulness that long-distance charges no longer apply to cell phones. Despite their independence and their appreciation for the time alone for their graduate studies in law/public policy and religion, they are both elated that the long-distance will end next summer when they are married. Jimmy aptly proposed when they were on vacation in Florida, and they will be tying in the travel and long-distance relationship theme for the ceremony and reception in Ohio (the Birthplace of Aviation) on June 9, 2012.

We are honored and humbled by the opportunity to start our own family and we wish to extend only a fraction of the support we have received to other families who face more daunting challenges. As we are blessed to be married next June, we recognize that not all people have that opportunity. We would ask for donations to the Human Rights Campaign's efforts to support marriage and relationship recognition for same-sex couples.

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Nathan and William
June 9, 2012

Nathan says, "William is a local librarian and I'm a full-timer at Target. We both love to read, watch movies and blog. There's always something to be blogging about. We met late one night at a dance club. We both didn't expect to find "the one" at such a grungy place but having that in common got us through the gate and into dating."

"Without the efforts of the HRC, we wouldn't be able to formally commit our lives to each other in a legal, meaningful ceremony in front of our loved ones."

Nathan and William say "our wedding site tells more about us!"

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Stephen and Raul
June 9, 2012

Raul and Stephen met on the marching band practice field 20 years ago! Sharing their lives and their passion for color guard, the couple has truly grown up together. Raised by loving families, Raul and Stephen now count many amazing friends amongst their loved ones. Of course, their world would not be complete without their two cats, Phineas and Thaddeus.

Stephen and Raul say, "Simply put, we want everyone to have the same freedoms and rights. We know, love, and support many people. In supporting HRC, you can do the same."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Susan and Brian
June 9, 2012

Susan and Brian say, "We're grateful for the love we share, and for the ways our family, friends, and associates support our life together. We hope to see the benefits associated with legal marriage made available to all couples, regardless of orientation."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Tara and Michelle
June 12, 2012

They say, "We met on the sidewalk while watching the 2010 DC Capital Pride Parade. A few days later, texts and email threads turned into daylong events. It was quite obvious to both of us pretty much from the beginning that we had stumbled upon something quite special. During many of those initial conversations, we were finishing each other's sentences. And within a month, the word soul mate was dropped to a friend or two. Neither of us could stop beaming from ear to ear in each other's presence."

They say they would like their friends and family to donate in their honor to the HRC because, "We would like to see further gains made in the fight for LGBT equality. We understand that monetary resources are necessary to effectively make those gains. Thus, we hope that our friends and family will show their support of our love by helping achieve a more equitable future for us and others."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Liam and Chad
June 16, 2012

Liam and Chad met thru mutual friends in Indianapolis, IN. They are hopeful for a day when all people will be able to marry in every state, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity.

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Rachel and Leslie
June 16, 2012

Leslie and Rachel met like your traditional same-sex couple: in New Testament class at seminary. Six years, two states, two cats, and 6 collective jobs later, they're still together and excited to make it legally binding.

They say, "We are so grateful to live in the state of New York where we can now get married legally. Thank you HRC for helping that happen! Please help support them in honor of our exciting day."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.


 

Cody and Thomas
June 16, 2012

Thomas was new in town, and was surrounded by a group of people. Cody introduced himself and after a few minutes of conversation, he left Thomas and sat down at the bar. Sitting five seats away, Cody sent Thomas a Facebook message.

"Hey, it was nice to meet you... " began the message. Now, two years later, the couple still continues the thread of that first message when they have something special to tell one another, such as "Happy Anniversary!"

The couple had their first date at Wasabi on Dickson Street, where the couple bonded over the movie "Steel Magnolias" an allusion that will make an appearance in their wedding as the bleeding armadillo groom's cake.

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Giuseppe and Chris
June 16, 2012

Giuseppe and Chris say, "we met on St Patrick's Day. Chris had the kindest and the warmest smile a man could ever wish to see. Giuseppe caught Chris's eye and ear. We talked together for most of the evening ignoring the rest of the party. Then, Giuseppe offered to help Chris with his business (such a confusing message) and two months later we had a real date. Our first date was a view of the city lights and conversation until late in the evening. Now, we are taking the journey of life together, a team and a partnership, in love."

"We want all people who choose to love and create a life together to be treated equally, as we all should be. A donation for the sake of equality is a donation that is a great gift to us. All other gifts shall be promptly donated to the Loch Ness Monster."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Yorki and Brian
June 16, 2012

Yorki and Brian say, "We met on Christmas Eve at church during Yorki's first visit to Ohio. We see ourselves as God's Christmas present to each other. The past seven and a half years have taught us that though we may come from different cultures and speak different languages, love conquers all. We have made a life with each other and share that life with our family, friends and a 13 year old Jack Russell Terrier named "Viktor." We cherish each other's company and the life experience we each bring to our relationship. Some of our common interests include international cuisine, Los Pitufos (The Smurfs), music and making each other laugh. Eventually we want to be able to travel together to enjoy all of God's creation."

"While we honor the intent behind giving gifts, we believe that contributions to organizations like HRC are more meaningful. Our marriage will celebrate love and equality for all; this is why we want you to celebrate with us by making a contribution to HRC's noble and important work so they can continue to work for and support our inclusive family values. Thank you!"

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Lizz and Erik
June 17, 2012

Lizz and Erik met at Carthage College, where they both work. They first spoke at a get-together in the library and afterwards Erik sent Lizz (and her co-worker) a cartoon on pi to test the waters. She responded favorably.

A week later they reconnected at Lizz's Family Fun Night that the Math Club was helping to host. Lizz thought Erik was really good with the kids and they bonded while coloring maps. A few comics sent Lizz's way and a bunch of IMing later, they finally started talking in real life. Lizz and Erik say, "love blossomed over beers and 18th century navigation techniques."

"We believe strongly in justice for all. Marriage equality is a huge part of civil rights for all people. We are blessed with so much already and would like for our friends and family to donate to help others. This is a cause we feel very passionately about; please help support it. Thank you!"

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Laura and Cheryl
June 20, 2012

Cheryl says, "We met at Long Beach Pride through a mutual friend. Laura was driving through Long Beach on her way home while I was there celebrating my birthday. I don't think either of us wanted a serious relationship at that point in our lives, but after our first date a few weeks later, I knew I couldn't live without her. It's funny how people say, "you'll know when you meet the right person." I never thought that was true until that first date. The conversations that night were soulful, deep and genuine. I felt that everything we were sharing, I could see in my mind's eye happening for us together in future years."

"Three years later we're getting married in New York to symbolize the love we have for each other, just like all couples do. It's true that we don't necessarily need the piece of paper to solidify our love, but we do need it to solidify our legal right to each other in the eyes of the government, taxes, property and all other rights bestowed upon the married citizens of America. We've had our opposition on both sides, gay and straight. To our gay community we'd like to say that whether or not you believe in getting married yourself, we should still come together to fight for that right because this is just another way we are oppressed. To the straight community, this country was based on freedom. Freedom of religion, justice for all and that all people are treated equally. It's crazy to me that we could potentially decide our next president on something so trivial as marriage. There are so many other battles to fight, why fight against a person's right to love whomever he/she chooses to love?"

"Laura and I have battled many forms of discrimination in our lives. Both of us are first generation Americans born to families who immigrated to the US in search of the "American Dream". We battled gender discrimination, classism, stereotypes of who we are based on the color of our skin or the god we've chosen to worship, but nothing has hurt more than the right to marry that was taken away from us in California. We will always advocate for marriage equality and hope that one day down the road, years from now we will be able to renew our vows in our own home state."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Jude and Emily
June 20, 2012

Emily and Jude met as music students at Boston University. They didn't have the sense to start dating until Emily had been away from BU for a couple of years, however, in February, 2008. They traded off undergraduate and graduate schools, Jude eventually enrolling at Emily's undergraduate alma mater, Rice University, and are now finishing their studies in London (E) and New York (J). They have lived apart for most of their 4.25 years together, and look forward to making a home together as a married couple!

Together, they say, "We can scarcely imagine what life would be like were we not permitted to unite our lives as we see fit, and are grateful for the benefits and protections under the law that marriage will bring. We believe that no couple should be denied those same benefits and protections."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Katherine and Matthew
June 21, 2012

Katherine says, "Matt and I met and knew we were right for each other right away. After a year, we're getting married, but we have so many friends who have been together longer who still can't marry."

"Matt and I are so lucky to be able to marry one another in our state. We just hope we can help others make this joy possible in their lives. Love knows no prejudice."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Julianne and Matthew
June 23, 2012

Julianne says, "Our first date was on January 23, 2009. Matthew was a techie for Miami University, and I was an undergraduate at the University of Cincinnati. We decided to get married on the 23rd of June because that number seems to keep springing up for us. We even got engaged on the 23rd of April without even realizing.

"As a part of the bisexual community, it's very important to me to use my wedding as an opportunity to help everyone still out there who can't get married. If I had fallen for a girl as deeply as I fell for Matthew, I wouldn't have this choice. I wouldn't be able to express what I feel for him with my family and friends by having a wedding ceremony. I would be forced to remain a second class citizen with my partner somewhere in the shadows because of a legalized intolerance. It is not right that even now, after all that we have accomplished towards an equal standard for our community, society is still holding back countless loving couples from sharing a life together under the guise of some warped religious morality. One day, we will all have the right to marry whomever we love. But until that day, we must continue to recognize intolerance for what it is, and share in each other's struggle for a more unified future."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Samantha and Michael
June 23, 2012

Samantha and Michael say, "We feel like we're already the luckiest people in the world for having found each other. To help us celebrate our new lives together, we're hoping you can take a minute and read about our favorite charities and if possible make a donation. This is a great excuse for us to try to make the world a slightly better place. Thanks for helping to make this event even more amazing for us."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Carolyn and Ryan
June 23, 2012

East coast natives, Ryan and Carolyn met in Colorado and quickly bonded over their love of the outdoors, Ultimate Frisbee and good beer. They look forward to toasting to all those things, love and happiness with friends and family in Boulder this June.

They say, "We believe all loving couples should have the opportunity and right to get married. It's that simple."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Ronald and Timothy
June 23, 2012

Ronald and Timothy say, "We have been a couple for 31 years and live in New York City. We met through Timothy's last girlfriend, and Ron's last boyfriend, who worked together at the same firm. They used to complain to each other about their difficult partners--the two of us. We each became curious about this other person who sounded so much like ourselves. When we finally met, we recognized a soul mate, and the rest is history. We are both life and professional partners in our interior design practice of Wagner Van Dam."

"We are interior designers and avid collectors, and we didn't feel we needed a lot of wedding gifts, as if we were just starting a life together. We thought that because HRC fights for basic human rights and for marriage equality, and we have won that right here in New York State, that it would be appropriate to celebrate our marriage through donations to HRC. We hope that one day our union will be recognized at a federal level."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Megan and Bryan
June 23, 2012

Bryan and Megan met during their undergraduate education at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. They met through Freshman Camp, an organization they both enjoyed at UNC's Campus Y.

This text, from the 2003 Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court decision that legalized same-sex marriage in that state, speaks to Megan and Bryan's feelings on why they have made the choice to marry:

"Marriage is a vital social institution; the exclusive commitment of two individuals to each other. Marriage is at once a deeply personal commitment to another human being and a highly public celebration of the ideals of mutuality, companionship, intimacy, fidelity, and family. Because it fulfills yearnings for security, safe haven, and connection that express our common humanity, marriage is an esteemed institution and the decision whether and whom to marry is among life's momentous acts of self-definition. It is undoubtedly for these concrete reasons, as well as for its intimately personal significance, that marriage has long been termed a 'civil right.' Without the right to choose to marry, one is excluded from the full range of human experience."

Supporting the HRC will help to continue the fight for equal marriage rights for ALL, something Bryan and Megan both feel is very important.

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Neila and Elizabeth
June 23, 2012

Neila and Elizabeth say, "Coming out late in life we were out of touch with current dating practices, and how to meet other lesbians. We started looking online. (Neila says she did herself, but Betty's was done by a friend to help her). There are a lot of very different people out there, so it was a miracle to find someone so compatible. We are truly blessed to have each other in our lives."

"We have pretty much anything we could want, but there are so many others in the LGBTQ world that are not as lucky as us. We hope that our donations and those of our friends will help others in the future have as much love and happiness as we do."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Liz and Slava
June 24, 2012

Liz says, "Slava and I have many friends in the LGBT community. I am proud and happy that Massachusetts presently supports legal same-sex marriage, but it is still not federally recognized, nor is it legal in all states."

"Legally recognized marriage is an important civil right, and deserves support. Without federal recognition, same sex couples do not have equal access to legal rights, including basic couple things like next-of-kin recognition, health insurance, social security benefits, pensions, etc."

"We thank you for considering a gift that will help others."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Greg and Stephen
June 28, 2012

Greg and Stephen say, "We met 14 years ago at G Lounge in New York during Happy Hour and have built a life together. We are delighted to finally be officially married."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Andy and John
June 30, 2012

"Many states do not recognize same sex marriages. The laws are discriminatory and unfair. How can you discriminate against love? It’s so rare to find, and when it happens we all need to fight for its survival," say Andy and John.

Andy continues, "John is an 8 year veteran of the military. He fought for our country and now he needs you to fight for us. He continues to put himself out there to protect others as a law enforcement officer. I am an educator for a salon chain and now I am trying to educate people I come in contact with about how unjust our country is to the LGBT community. John and I have each other, but that could be taken away from either of us in the blink of an eye."

"Our rights as Americans are in jeopardy. We would have no say if something happened to one of us and we couldn’t respond for ourselves. We would have no right to any benefits if one of us should pass away. Part of marriage is to be able to take care of and protect the ones you love and for that to be recognized in a legal fashion is the greatest gift HRC could give us. Our gift to future generations could be that they do not have to ever know what it was like for people to not accept them for who they are. Please consider donating to a cause we both feel very strongly about. Help HRC help people like us to have the same freedoms as everyone else. Thank you and God Bless!"

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Jennifer and Gregory
June 30, 2012

In Minneapolis during winter 2008, Gregory created a snow castle sculpture for Jennifer shortly after they met and she often surprised him with fresh flowers. Four years later, they continue to be inspired by one another every single day and look forward to a wedding day shared with those nearest and dearest and to all the days which follow.

The issue of marriage equality is of great importance to both Gregory and Jennifer. They say, "certainly we feel it is more important than the stemware or bath towels we have registered for. It is a human rights issue and standing by silently in the face of oppression is not something we would consider."

"If this issue is of importance to you, too, we invite guests to donate to this incredibly important cause in lieu of a gift."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Scharli and Alicia
July 1, 2012

Scharli and Alicia met while working as photographers at a studio. Alicia was four months pregnant at the time and had moved to Boise to be closer to family. Scharli was a nomad of sorts, and had just planned to land in Boise for a short time. They would spend every day together at work and quickly became close friends. They started dating and in the fall of 2011 became engaged. Now they have a healthy growing little boy and a wonderful life together. They are having their commitment ceremony on July 1, 2012. They are excited to show all their friends and family the lifelong commitment that they are making to one another. They are very excited to see where the road will be taking them next, and admire how the road got them to where they are now.

"Marriage equality is something that greatly affects our family. A donation to HRC will help make families like ours, just like yours."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Benjamin and Elanor
July 1, 2012

Benjamin and Elanor say, "Like many couples, we met on the internet. Hurray for the algorithms of love!"

"As we prepare to cement our bond together, we want to make it possible for others whose relationships are not recognized to get the recognition and benefits that they deserve. We strongly believe that love is at the center of a marriage, not gender or sexual orientation, and we'd like to make it possible for other loving couples to reinforce the lasting nature of their relationships in an official manner."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Sam and Rémi
July 3, 2012

Rémi is French and Sam is New Yorkan and they met in Paris (of all places). They are rather shy but if you know them you probably have enough information to fill in the rest. Or let your imagination do the trick."

They would like you to donate to the HRC because "we are a loving couple with mixed nationalities and we understand how important marriage is in our ability to invest in a life together. However, we know all too well that this is a right denied to too many loving couples in France and the United States. We are so grateful for the ability to be together and we want all of our friends, family members and fellow human beings to have this same opportunity. It's an honorable thing to love someone as much as we love each other. Our sincere wish is for everyone to be able to receive equal recognition for it. And thank you, thank you, thank you for donating!"

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

TJ and Jeff
July 7, 2012

TJ and Jeff want to share the day with their friends and family that "we are in love and want to celebrate like every other straight couple can in America." TJ Says, "the first day I met Jeff, I told my good friend April that Jeff is the one I am going to marry, and really it's about to come true! Any donations would mean so much to us both. Thank you for your time."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Eleanor and Hayden
July 7, 2012

Hayden and Eleanor both deeply believe that the right to marry is a fundamental one that belongs to all people, regardless of sexual orientation.

Together they say, "It causes us great pain to know that as we celebrate and exercise our right to the security and benefits of a legal marriage that that right is denied to so many people across our country and throughout the world. It would give us great pleasure for part of our wedding celebration to benefit an organization that works tirelessly to fight for equal rights and marriage equality."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Misty and Alexis
July 12, 2012

Misty and Alexis met on April 18, 2009, but have known each other since December of 2008. They started off as friends and were actually scared to meet as they knew that their forever would take place. So, Misty and Alexis decided to meet in Laughlin (they drove from 2 separate states because they met on-line). From the moment Misty saw Alexis, she knew she touched her soul.

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Danielle and Dana
July 14, 2012

At the time, Dana was finishing his PhD. at UIUCI, which meant there were a lot of long four hour drives that semester, but they managed to fall in love despite the distance. Danielle moved back home to work and before long they were making a life together. Danielle and Dana adopted Jersey, their Springer Spaniel, in the fall of 2008, and moved into a bigger place. They were both able to get great, local jobs, and were happy to be surrounded by lots of friends and family!

Danielle says, "As a member of the LGBT community, I had never really given much thought to being legally married until my medical bills started to rack up. Dana and I started to plan a wedding for next summer, knowing that we didn't need a piece of paper to declare what we already knew, but understanding the realities of this economy and our dreams for a future house and children. Unfortunately, I was recently told I had a lump in my breast that needed to be removed, sooner rather than later. I don't have health insurance and it was going to be a very expensive procedure. After discussing the options with friends and family, Dana and I decided to bump up our marriage in time to be able to have health insurance for the surgery.

This drives home one of the many reasons why the LGBT community should have marriage equality. We are lucky to be able to make the choice to be recognized under the law, so we would like for our loved ones to make a donation to further the efforts for equality in the United States of this most important universal human right. We feel it makes for a great beginning to a marriage of equality, love and justice."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Jared and Kathleen
July 14, 2012

Friends for more than ten years before beginning their romantic life together, Jared and Kathleen met in their freshman year of High School. Together they say, "Now, having been in love for nearly 7 years, we're looking forward to the future, and continuing to spend our lives together."

"We do not take for granted the rights we have to legally marry, and we long to live in a world where all of our friends, family, and fellow humans may marry whomever they choose."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Michele and Beth
July 14, 2012

In the fall of 2011, Beth and Michele met when they joined Voices of Kentuckiana, a GALA chorus. Having common frames of references and experiences of serving in the US Navy, they became friends. During the Holiday concerts in December, they saw a different side to each other and began dating shortly after the beginning of the year.

Since then they've been inseparable, both knowing they had finally found their soul mate. July 14th will be a ceremony to commit themselves to each other in the presence of family and friends. They are making a trip to Washington DC to be legally married on June 11th.

Both Beth and Michele believe that every person has a right to freely love the person they have chosen. They also believe that no person should not be allowed to marry and receive the same protections afforded those who are allowed to marry now.

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Brad and Alan
July 15, 2012

;">In the summer of 1993 when Alan was living in New York and Brad was living in Washington, they met in Reboboth Beach, Delaware, through a mutual friend. On July 15, 1994, they exchanged rings in a private ceremony in the south of France. In January 1995, Brad moved to New York, where they have lived together ever since. This summer on the eighteenth anniversary of their exchanging rings, they will wed in a Jewish-Episcopal interfaith service co-officiated by a rabbi and an Episcopal priest at Brad's church in New York.

Brad and Alan would like their friends to donate to the HRC because, "we all need to spread the love and spread the word."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Alan and John
July 20, 2012

Alan and John met August 27, 1991 while participating in an event at a liberal Unitarian Universalism church on the north side of Chicago. Through their many years together, Alan and John have enjoyed traveling to exciting places all over the globe.

In 2005, Alan and John moved to Mexico City, where they finally tied the knot on July 20, 2012. After a short civil ceremony, Alan and John celebrated with about 30 of their closest friends.

Alan and John would like you to consider supporting the Human Rights Campaign with their ongoing work towards marriage equality in the United States. They believe strongly that, in the very near future, all people will have the right to marry the person they love.

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Dan and Harold
July 21, 2012

Dan says, "Harold and I met on Match.com in February 2011. I was living in Connecticut and working near Wall St. Harold is a High School Music teacher on Long Island. We spent every weekend together and ironically I ended up getting a new job on Long Island. So we moved in and are now living happily together with our 2 cats. Our families have never seen either of us happier and they say 'when you know it's right, you know it's right'. Well, it's right!"

Dan volunteered with HRC during the New York State vote. He says, "HRC was the one organization that laid the grassroots groundwork to get the law passed. It was HRC that enabled us the freedom to marry."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.
 

Suzanne and Steven
July 21, 2012

Suzanne and Steven met in DC in 2010 and are excited to be getting married in July.

They say, "we're thrilled to get married, and we want everyone to have the chance to marry the person they love. Massachusetts has decided to stand for equality, but the nationwide fight isn't won yet."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Karin and Missy
July 21, 2012

Missy and Karin met at the Montessori school where Missy works and where Karin's daughter was enrolled in preschool. Their friendship started with a mountain bike ride and it was an instant connection. They began dating a year later and soon after bought a home together where they live with their 4 children.

They say, "We feel strongly that all people should be treated fairly and with respect. No one should be excluded because of their race, religion, beliefs or lifestyle. We have been very blessed in our lives already and do not wish for more material things. For that reason we would like our family and friends who wish to give something to donate a small gift to HRC in our honor."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Beatriz and Bret
July 21, 2012

In early February 2008 Beatriz registered on an online dating website, and created her profile. She checked off a few boxes and hoped to meet the man of her dreams....

When Beatriz saw Bret, she smiled, walked up to him and hugged him and thought, "I wanna hold your hand." Bret was thinking, "I wanna be your man." But she quickly pulled away so as not to scare him off with her approach. That night was magical; they talked and it seemed as if they were already a couple in love. Beatriz did most of the talking while Bret looked deeply into her eyes as he listened to every word that came out of her mouth. She fell in love with his ability to listen well, and she also loved his easy-going nature; he was non-judgmental and a little clumsy. Bret enjoyed listening to her; he loved her passion for life, intelligence and smile.

From that day forward, they could not stop seeing each other. Every day in every way a friendship developed and eventually, their love for each other was born. Beatriz and Bret moved in together 9 months after they met and since then they've have been through a Magical Mystery Tour.

Beatriz and Bret are both environmentalists and choose to have a lifestyle that is the least impactful to the planet. They are activists for environmental issues and human rights.

This bi-cultural couple who firmly believe that all human beings are equal, regardless of gender, sexual orientation, legal status, color or religion.

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Keith and Erin
July 28, 2012

Keith and Erin say, "We met while working for an emergency home repair organization in Kentucky. It took a little while, but we eventually began dating, moved to the Washington, D.C. area, and got engaged last July."

"We are incredibly excited to have our commitment to each other recognized by our friends, family, and government, but too many people are denied this right. We encourage our guests to donate to HRC with the hope that someday all couples will be able to similarly have their love and commitment fully recognized."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Alexa and Karin
August 4, 2012

Karin and Alexa met nearly six years ago in San Diego. After dating on and off for 5+ years, Alexa proposed to Karin while on vacation in Key West, Fl. (Karin was completely surprised).

Alexa is an attorney at a corporate law firm and Karin works in the medical research field. Despite their serious jobs, they can both be goofy and silly (one of the things Alexa loves the most about Karin is that she laughs at her jokes and they have so much fun together).

They are each other's best friends and are looking forward to spending the rest of their lives together.

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.
 

Kurt and Shaun
August 4, 2012

Kurt and Shaun say, "We are excited to marry in our home city of San Francisco on August 4, 2012. Even though we will be legal "domestic partners”, at this point the California government will not recognize our marriage. Please consider helping us change that by making a donation for marriage equality."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Anna and Nick
August 4, 2012

Anna and Nick say, "We met at Country Kitchen. Seriously. Which is where we plan on having the reception. (Not seriously.)"

Anna continues, "I was a freshman at Mizzou, and Nick was a junior. I was new to my group of friends, most of whom had gone to high school together. I had already attended several awesome Country Kitchen study sessions, so I felt like I was becoming part of the group. Nick showed up one night, and I thought, "Hmm, who is this attractive man, most likely between the ages of 19-21, whom I have not yet seen?"

Their first date was at Anna’s dorm dining hall. She says she choked on her food and milk came out of her nose, but other than that, it was a pretty good first date.

Together they say, "Marriage equality is so important to us. Love is love." Anna says, "I have never understood how someone can argue love. Or be against love. It is completely contradictory to say that you love all people, but yet you have a problem with someone loving another person. The bottom line is: It is love. No questions to be asked. No answers needed. It's love. Period. It really is that simple."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Adam and Sarah
August 4, 2012

Adam says, "Sarah and I met in 2007, introduced through a mutual friend (thanks, Sara!), and five years later we're so excited to celebrate our being very much in love with our friends and family at a commitment ceremony. Love is a reason to celebrate!"

"We look forward to the day when we will be able to celebrate love and legally recognized marriage for our friends and family, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity, in any state in the US. Your donation to support marriage equality is a true celebration our love."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Marguerite and Kimberly
August 4, 2012

Two lucky girls in love.

They would like their friends and family to donate to the HRC because , "we all deserve the same rights, let's make that a reality!"

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

John and Kirk
August 4, 2012

John and Kirk say, "We met on Gay.com and I e-mailed Kirk to set up a date to meet. Our First Date was at AGCMCC Church on Easter Sunday August 12th 2009 in Minneapolis MN."

"We want you to donate to the HRC so that everyone can have the right to marry their partner and have equal rights."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

August and Denise
August 4, 2012

August says, "Denise & I had been good friends for a while and spent lots of time kayaking. Yet our love blossomed when we took a zipline journey in the West Virginia treetops. Both of us were terrified of heights but loved the adventure. That's just our beginning!"

"More about us is described on the Love For All campaign that was used to battle Against Amendment One in North Carolina."

They would like their friends and family to donate in their honor to "help fight for the equality for freedom to marry anyone that you love."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

 

Elizabeth and Erin
October 5, 2012

Elizabeth says, "Erin and I met in the fall of 1998 and our love story has spanned years of comings, goings, partings, and impossibilities."

"In lieu of gifts, please consider donating to the Human Rights Campaign, the largest civil rights organization working to achieve equality for all LGBT people. Erin and I have been blessed enough to have had a strong, beautiful collection of people supporting us throughout our lives; we would like to ask that you give what you can to aid those who have yet to find such love, joy and support. Thank you!"

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Jessica and Casey
August 11, 2012

Jessica and Casey, "We met and fell in love over Match.com. The rest is....HISTORY!!!! Being a straight couple we are both incredible supporters of marriage equality. We feel that all loving, committed couples should be able to enjoy the rights and privileges that most couples maintain. Our love and devotion to one another is NO different than any other couple!"

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Jesse and Peri
August 11, 2012

"We met, fell in love, and are getting married. Shouldn't everyone have the same opportunity?"

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Jessica and Casey
August 12, 2012

Santana and Ashley say, "We met online in a lesbian chat room on June 30th, 2010 and we hit it off great! We learned a lot about each other and it was almost as if it was love at first text."

Ashley says, "Santana was so sweet and cute. I just knew she was my whole world. Now, she is my entire life and I can't wait to marry her and have a family."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Monica and Shannon 
August 12, 2012

Monica and Shannon say, "It seems we were always orbiting around and toward each other, traveling in similar friend circles for a long time. We had run into each other through mutual friends at karaoke, roller derby games, house parties, and local bars, but never really found the opportunity to get to know each other."

"It wasn't until the end of 2008 at a roller derby awards banquet (Monica is a skater and Shannon is a longtime fan of the sport) that we had any one-on-one time." After dinner, Shannon spied Monica sitting alone. Convinced that no beautiful girl should be left sitting alone at the bar, she pulled up a chair and they got to talking. They were both ending relationships at the time, but there were sparks that night that were hard to ignore.

Another six months later, they both attended a derby committee meeting to plan an event. It was after that meeting that they discovered they lived a mere 2 blocks away from each other and even though Shannon had her bike, and Monica was on foot without an umbrella, Shannon walked her home in the rain. Rather than waiting for a phone number or another chance encounter, Shannon went out on a limb and asked Monica out on an actual date on Facebook... but Monica hadn't checked her messages! It would be at least one agonizing week before she did, and having spent days thinking about that walk in the rain, Monica said yes instantly.

They say, "Through numerous dates and time spent together, we were both delighted and amazed to find not only how much we liked each other as individuals, but how familiar, and for lack of a better word, perfect, we were for each other. We are the best of friends and can't imagine our lives any other way than with us together. We look forward to getting our families together to celebrate our lives together in August, and to starting a family of our own in the years to come."

In Monica's home state of Michigan, same-sex marriage, civil unions, and adoption by same-sex couples is prohibited by law. LGBT rights are challenged all across the United States and Canada, but they say, "It is our hope that our happy day can generate more happy days for more same-sex couples across the world. We are so fortunate to have the love and support of our families, but we also recognize many people like us aren't so fortunate. Rather than strictly collecting material items as wedding gifts, we hope to raise funds so that HRC can continue to protect the rights and freedoms we all deserve. This is just one way we hope to gather up all that love and support we enjoy, and pay it forward."

"We have chosen HRC because they are currently the largest civil rights organization working to achieve equality for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Americans. We also hope our families, friends, and supporters will register to vote (if they haven't already) to ensure the policy-makers and politicians are people who have all human rights at heart. While our wedding is legally recognized where we live, we are looking forward to the day when our relationship is recognized in Michigan and across the United States. We hope to be a part of that change."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Dan and Becca 
August 18, 2012

Becca and Dan say, "Our relationship began under the most unlikely of circumstances. At a snowy barn dance in the West Village, Dan introduced himself to Becca. We danced (along with another fifty people) and managed to exchange phone numbers at the end of the night. An unexpected beginning was followed by a courtship filled with laughter and adventures- rock climbing, hiking, trail runs, time in the city."

"Today, we live in Stamford, CT with Tobey the cat.” Becca commutes into New York City a few days a week, where she studies church history for a PhD and does a bit of grant writing for a school. Dan manages part of a quality control lab for a small biotech firm. “Mostly, we try to spend a lot of time outdoors, enjoy good home-cooked meals (thanks, Dan!) and wander Stamford's sociable downtown. It's a good life."

"We are proud to celebrate our marriage in New Paltz, NY, where same-sex marriages were first performed in 2004 and where all couples can now legally marry. We believe all loving couples should have the opportunity and right to get married. It's that simple."

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Coral and David
August 24, 2012

Coral and David say, "After many years, we've decided to legally marry, but are distraught that not everyone in this country can legally marry the person they love. Therefore, we've asked our guests to donate to HRC, who we know will continue to pursue marriage equality and LGBT equality."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Kim and Linda
August 25, 2012

Kim and Linda say, "We are a fun loving couple with children. We have been together for 6 years and finally get to be married!! This wedding is a symbol for others to know how equality is necessary. We ask our friends and family to please donate money to the HRC."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Larry and Julio
August 26, 2012

Larry says, "Julio and I met a club in Jacksonville, FL called the Metro. I was working as part of the security team. At about 2am when the Metro was closing, Julio and two of his friends were leaving. I was in the back lot walking to the front near the club, when Julio's friend Jeremy walked back to me. Jeremy at the time told me his friend Julio thought I was cute and if I was gay. I said thank you and tell your friend he is good looking."

"Julio and I tried to start talking within a few days. It was hard because Julio did not speak much English. After a few weeks we both said, 'No, we can’t do this.' Two months later, Julio called me not knowing if I had the same number. Julio said, 'Hello Larry this Julio.' He had me at hello and we are going on 5 years as of August 26th."

"Julio and I have gone through so much but we are still together because we truly love each other."

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Julie and Robert
September 1, 2012

Robert and Julie have loved each other for a long time and now they are married! We had a small ceremony April 7, 2012 and are looking forward to a reception party with friends and family in September.

Julie and Robert are blessed with the love of many people of all shapes, colors, and styles. We believe in being kind and inclusive, remembering that all people are equal.

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Marc and Peter
September 6, 2012

Marc says, "Peter and I met at work. We immediately hit it off and became very close quickly. What's great about this is that we became best friends first before we became lovers."

Together they say, "We strongly believe in the work at HRC and supporting the HRC truly shows that you care."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

La Tanya and Kamala 
September 8, 2012

La Tanya and Kamala say, "Friendship was the foundation from which our love has grown." After 10 years together and the repeal of "Don't Ask, Don't Tell," we decided to cement our relationship and get married.

"We are blessed to have each other as well as material gifts. We would like family and friends to consider donations to HRC to help the organization continue their valiant efforts to advocate for equal rights and benefits for all Americans, including the right of loving and committed couples to marry."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

David and Tim
September 8, 2012

David and Tim say, "Both being veterinarians in New York City, we met as co-workers in the summer of 2006 while being given a tour of our future work place. After opening day, we quickly developed a close friendship and soon realized that we were meant to spend our lives together. We are bound together by our shared faith, and love of family, friends, pets and work. Although we knew we could go to a nearby state and be married, it was important for us to be married in the state we call home. So we hoped, waited, and prayed (and donated!) for New York to pass a marriage equality law. After watching our legislature vote live on television, we began planning our wedding. We are so proud that New York State will give us the same legal protections, rights and responsibilities it gives different-sex spouses."

They say, "We are conscious of how blessed we are in many ways, but especially in material terms. It would mean so much to us for you make a gift to further the cause of marriage equality across the USA. All families deserve equal protection under the law. Besides, we live in a New York City apartment and do not have room for anything else!"

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Jonathan and Andrew
September 8, 2012

Jonathan and Andrew say, "We met seven years ago, a mere month before graduation thanks to our mutual friend (and wedding officiant) Erik Kesting."

"We're now super excited to marry, grateful to Vermont's marriage equality law, and appreciative of your generosity to the HRC and its efforts to bring the right to marry to all Americans."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Henry and Bob
September 8, 2012

Henry and Bob say, "We met in the Fire Island Pines 12 years ago and the rest is history...the full story is on www.BobandHenry.com.

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Jill and Dima
September 15, 2012

Jill and Dima say, "A home is a place of love, peace, and security, where we can be ourselves and find support from the people around us.
 
As we celebrate our marriage and establish our home together, we wish that all people may feel at home in this country; experiencing and celebrating their love without fear of harassment or oppression.
 
We wish to live in a place where we can all define our partnerships, marriages, and families in our own way; where people can embrace their personal beliefs and views, even as they stand to defend the ability of others to be different."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Andrea and Luz
September 15, 2012

Andrea and Luz met on match.com and they are very excited to have their friends and family honor their wedding through the HRC Wedding Registry.

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Sarah and Allison
September 15, 2012

Sarah says, "Allie and I met in the land of opportunity, better known as okcupid.com. After a magical first date, a year apart, and an equally magical second first date, we've become the macaroni to each other's freakin' gouda cheese. We currently live on the second story of an old farmhouse just outside of Chicago, where we sing songs, bake cupcakes, play 'You've Got Mail' on loop, and live happily ever after."

"We would like our friends and family to donate to the HRC in our honor because we have enough stuff already! We're also excited at the prospect of turning the love and excitement of our big day into a big day for another LGBT couple somewhere out there."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Tara and Heather
September 15, 2012

Recent transplants to Arizona, Heather and Tara met while training at a local Brazilian Jiu Jitsu academy in Pittsburgh, PA. They quickly developed a close friendship, which evolved over time into more. A series of seemingly random circumstances led each of them to the same gym through the same mutual friend for which they feel lucky. In the short period of time that they have known each other, Tara and Heather have grown to know the fairy tale that they believe most people search for their whole lives. They believe they've found each other in this life, but that they've known each other somehow forever, and look forward to spending the rest of forever together.

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David and Joseph
September 15, 2012

In June 2011, thanks to New York Governor Andrew Cuomo, a few Republican senators, a large number of queer activists and millions of GLBT folks who live and love, New York legalized gay marriage.

Meanwhile, Joseph was already hatching the third "First Date" Anniversary celebration of his and David's meeting on July 17th. Though David was not usually one for ritual and paying special attention to the demarcations of the human calendar, he decided to surprise Joseph by proposing. In short he wanted a better anniversary date! They're getting married!

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Anne and Sarah - September 16, 2012

Anne and Sarah say, "We met serendipitously through mutual friends at a local bar. The timing wasn't right for either of us, but we kept running into each other and continued to have a magnetic pull. It wasn't until a year after first meeting that we were able to officially begin our courtship."

"Long talks during dinner dates and phone calls revealed that we shared a multitude of commonalities and the relationship blossomed quickly. We have survived a few arguments, setbacks, and many obstacles over the past two years but we haven't stopped laughing together and we don't plan to ever stop. We're a great balance for each other and can't wait to take the plunge into a new chapter of patience, growth, and even more love."

"We are normal. We do normal things. We do laundry, pay taxes, write "thank you" cards, and mow the lawn. We just want to be able to legally marry our best friend and grow together as the years go by. We are hopeful for a day when we don't have to stress out about the future and who is covered under what law and how we are going to make sure we are both protected. Having our rights voted on and then taken away and flip-flopped back and forth has got to stop. Please donate to HRC to help fight for rights on behalf of loving people like us. We don't need superior rights, just equal rights."

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Phil and Andrew - September 16, 2012

After 7 years together, and an already eager-to-be-engaged Andrew, Phil decided to make some major plans for an incredible engagement proposal. Deciding it would be fun to choose an engagement site with special meaning, Phil decided to choose a site in Europe that his college friend, Cortney, had described several years back---El Camino De Santiago, a pilgrimage path from southwestern France through north-western Spain to the coast. The trail is said to carry spiritual significance alongside spectacular French and Spanish scenery and cuisine. Andrew and Phil's sister, Kristina, were on board with this idea and created a two and a half week itinerary to complete this 400 mile trek.

Phil and Andrew say, "Nothing means more to us than to see our marriage and the marriages of everyone else in love recognized just as equally. And HRC's work is strongly helping to get us there."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

George and Michael
September 19, 2012

Together, George and Michael say, "After 15 years together we were married in Central Park with close friends and family. Thank you for your support through the years!"

George and Michael ask their friends and family to donate to the HRC, "To help others and the next generations of gay and lesbian couples be treated fairly and equitably with the same respect as all other individuals."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Amanda and Gregory
September 29, 2012

Amanda and Greg met in the fall of 2004 at NYU, from where they both graduated, and have been engaged since 2008. Amanda, who grew up mainly outside Louisville, Kentucky, is a writer in the communications department of an animal-rights non-profit. Greg, who grew up on Long Island, is a PhD candidate in mathematics. They live in Jersey City with their two cats, Dracula and Dorian Gray, and enjoy science fiction novels, spicy vegan cuisine, winning 50% of the time when playing video games, and fantastical movies.

Their commitment ceremony will take place the day before their 8th anniversary: September 29, 2012, in Riverton, New Jersey. They can't wait!

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Jimmy and Travis
September 29, 2012

Trav is a critical care nurse in the ICU at the largest hospital in our region, and Jimmy is a consultant to non-profit organizations and an RYT-200 yoga instructor. They say, "we met in a yoga class, began dating, and fell in love doing the things we like most in the outdoor playground that is our home state of Vermont." Jimmy proposed to Trav in March of this year while out back country skiing.

"We are interested in supporting marriage equality efforts nationwide because we are lucky to live in Vermont where equality is already recognized. We recognize how fortunate we are and in the spirit of gratitude we want to continue to advocate for equality elsewhere. We are supporting the HRC as well as critical equality efforts regionally in New Hampshire and Maine."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Melanie and Jason
September 29, 2012

Melanie and Jason say, "We are two very happy people who love laughing together, traveling, hanging out with our dogs, spending time with family, and making any possible excuse to sample one of the many craft breweries around us in Boulder."

Melanie is a lawyer, and Jason, a software engineer, was brave enough to actually propose to a divorce lawyer. "We are getting married in September and looking forward to having the support of our family and friends."

Melanie says, "I would rather have people donate to HRC than receive any gift on our traditional wedding registry, though traditional gifts are certainly still welcome. We are both very passionate about marriage equality. We have friends who are deeply in love who cannot get married, and it feels fundamentally unjust and unfair on a personal level for both of us. In addition, I, as a divorce lawyer, have had the opportunity to see the impossible position that same-sex couples are put in when they do not have equal protection under the law. Some of my colleagues worked on a particularly difficult case which you can read about at abcnews.com. We want everyone to have the ability to marry the person they love.”

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Mary and Waverly
September 29, 2012

Waverly says, "In 1995 I walked into a Honda dealership in Allston, Massachusetts. I was directed to the cutest sales girl ever. I knew before I had finished leasing my car that Mary Shea was destined to be my next girlfriend. It turns out that she was my last!"

"Mary felt the same and over the next 18 months we got to know each other. We fell in love and 16 years later we are proud to celebrate both our love and the early days of marriage equality in the United States."

Together, Mary and Waverly say, "HRC is instrumental in the fight for gay and human rights. We would be honored if you chose to make a donation to HRC."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Autumn and Matt
September 30, 2012

Together they say, "We met online even though we worked two blocks away from each other. After almost three years together, we share our lives with our beloved dog Abby and cat Seamus. We are grateful for the love and partnership we have found in each other, as well as the support we have received from our friends, family, and community."

"We would like people to donate to the HRC because all people should have the right to do what we are doing on our wedding day - to marry the person they love. If this issue is important to you as well, we hope that you will consider donating to the HRC in lieu of a traditional gift."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Brian and David
October 5, 2012

Brian and David say, "October 2012 marks the 13th year we've been together, the last 10 of which have been spent in London. But, we are excited to marry in the city and state where we met, and thrilled that we'll have the chance to do so legally."

"While this is an historic milestone for same-sex couples in New York, we believe it is important to remember that there are still too many obstacles to recognition of gay and lesbian unions in the United States and throughout the rest of the world."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Ginger and Julie
October 6, 2012

Ginger says, "Julie and I met in 2006 in a very awkward and unfairytale-like way. It just wasn't in the cards for us to be together then. A few months went by and we ran into each other again. Something that started as hanging out and watching movies turned into something beautiful. I am so thankful and blessed to have met the person that I know was meant for only me (it sure took long enough). We plan to have a small ceremony next year. Guess that's when we will find out who truly supports us. I look forward to starting this chapter in my life and enjoying the journey. This is the chance for our Happy Ever After."

"We hope people will make donations to HRC because there has to be an end to all the hate in this world. Love is love. It doesn't have a color, an age limit, a sex. It's just love because it is. Not everyone, we included, has the luxury of being able to have a "normal" wedding. We are going to have a small ceremony in a state where it is not legal, and then go to another state to get the paperwork taken care of. I know it will be worth it when I say "I Do" to my best friend. I look forward to a day when marriage between any two people who love each other is accepted. Help us in this fight. Thank you!"

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Ellen and Jason
October 7, 2012

Jason and Ellen met this past February, thanks to Match.com and the encouragement/pushiness of one of Ellen's good friends. After some initial shyness and uncertainty, they discovered how much they enjoyed each other's company and were soon discussing marriage, officially becoming engaged on May 31. They have been (mostly) happily planning their nuptials ever since.

Together they say, "We want everyone to be able to experience the joy and thrill of marrying the person they love, just as we are able to do, regardless of gender or sexual identity. Thus, it seems fitting to honor our wedding by making a gift which will provide funds to work towards this equality."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Megan and Brad
October 11, 2012

Megan and Brad say, "We are both very lucky to be marrying the person we love. We hope the same right is soon awarded to all consenting adults! We hope that everyone will be able to experience the joy that we feel."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Scott and Steve
October 11, 2012

Scott says, "Steve and I met on the internet through a writers' site and started chatting, and when we learned that we didn’t live half away around the world from each other we decided to meet for a date. We've been together almost 10 years now. We are having our ceremony on our 10th Anniversary now that the State of Delaware is performing Civil Unions for out of state residents. It's on the beach at our favorite place for vacation, Rehoboth Beach."

"Equal is Equal. We just don’t understand why people can't see that. Those opposed to marriage are on the wrong side of history and will be judged by the future as so. We all need to work to make equality happen faster and for the right reasons. It’s a freedom thing."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Brandon and Graetel
October 12, 2012

Brandon tells the two different versions of meeting Graetel. Here they are:

The LONG version-

"I was working at the Minnesota Zoo and part-time at Recreational Equipment Inc. when I first met Graetel. With a name like that, how could I not make fun of her? After bothering her for quite a bit, we ended up going our separate ways for work. She just, however, could not resist my rugged good looks and charm and we soon started building a great life in Madison, Wisconsin."

The SHORT version: "I met Graetel. She fell madly in love with me. I win."

Together, Brandon and Graetel say, "we feel that everyone should have an equal opportunity to have what we have. We have many friends who aren't able to have this and we think that is unfair to them. Love is love no matter the sex of the people involved."

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Ashley and Lichelle
October 13, 2012

Ashley and Lichelle met in 2007 through a mutual friend. They always knew there was something more than just a friendship between them, but they did not start dating until November 2009. Ashley and Lichelle immediately fell in love with each other and at a Halloween party on October 30, 2010, Ashley proposed to Lichelle in front of all of their closest friends. "We have never been more happy than we are right now and can't wait to spend the rest of our lives together."

"We would like people to donate to HRC because we believe that marriage is an equal right. Everyone, regardless of gender, has the right to marry the person that they love. Happiness is something that everyone deserves, no matter what race, gender or sexual orientation. Hopefully, by donations and support, marriage will be an equal right for everyone."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Krysta and Sean
October 13, 2012

Sean and Krysta have been friends since they were 11 years old. Their friendship through childhood developed into an amazing love as adults.

A wedding is an exciting time for any couple and it saddens Sean and Krysta that so many people are denied this same joy. Love and commitment should be respected by all and legal rights shouldn’t be determined by what gender one loves.

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Alisha and Amy
October 13, 2012

Alisha and Amy say, "We met on a dating site called OkCupid in September 2009. After a few weeks of talking online, we realized it was time to finally meet in person. We met at a theme park in Southern Indiana and hit it off immediately. A week later, we were officially a couple."

"In 2011, we moved into a house together and got engaged. Our families and friends have been very supportive and welcoming of us. Many have already offered to help with our wedding ceremony. We created a page dedicated to our wedding planning and updates: http://www.squidoo.com/holdin-outdoor-wedding."

"We have both worked very hard locally to support our LGBT community. Donating to HRC in our name would be a great way for family and friends to show their support for us and our efforts."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Katrina and Kenneth
October 13, 2012

Katrina and Kenneth, "We met where we work, at New Seasons Market. One of the values that drew us to this company was its acceptance and support of a diverse workforce. The friendships we have cultivated in this vibrant community and throughout our lives have given us immense joy, strength, and love."

"We are super excited to be getting married, and we recognize that many of our good friends cannot share this basic human right. In lieu of a wedding gift, we would love a donation of any amount to be made to this compassionate organization. Thank you!"

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Larissa and Rob
October 13, 2012

Larissa says, "Rob and I met at work a media organization where bias is looked down upon. However we have a lot in common, including feeling passionate about this issue. And it is one we will not be silent about. We feel strongly that our right to marry will never be the same until everyone we love can have the same option."

"We don't see the battle for same sex marriage as a political issue, a social issue, a religious issue, but rather a human rights issue. We both feel one day soon our society will look back on this injustice and see it as a dark mark on our history."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Courtenay and KT
October 18, 2012

Courtenay and KT met through a mutual friend, at a coffeehouse in Rochester, NY. Their whirlwind romance continued the next day with a celebration of soul food and birthday cake with birthday shots at the bar. By the end of two days together, they were inseparable. On their third anniversary, KT proposed to Courtenay with a family heirloom ring. They enjoy movies, their shared love for their children, trail riding, photography and the arts. They are excited to share their joy in everlasting love with family and friends at their wedding on October 18, 2012.

Courtenay and KT say, "HRC pounds the pavement and makes the calls to lawmakers, lobbying for our rights everyday on the web, air, and television. It's hard enough living life to its fullest without having to constantly remind those around us that we are people in love, just the same as any other couple. HRC's programs not only affect legislation but their programs help to shape the way of thinking in America today and for future generations. Thanks, HRC!"

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Jonathan and Rasheed
October 20, 2012

Jonathan and Rasheed say, "We met online four and a half years ago. We agreed to meet for drinks...drinks turned into dinner...dinner turned into a relationship...the relationship turned into an engagement. And now, we are very excited to get married to each other and share the celebration with our families & friends."

"Nothing would make us happier than having the legal right to be married. HRC is fighting to make that dream a reality. In lieu of gifts, we would prefer that you make a donation to this important civil rights issue."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.
 

Lakisha and Andrew
October 20, 2012

Lakisha says, "Andy and I met through mutual friends in the late 2000s. Somehow fate saw to it that we were in the same room on multiple occasions. We went on our first "date" in November 2008 to Chapman Stick Night in Fredericksburg, VA. We were so nervous on the ride down that we didn't say a word to each other until we got to the venue. Things started to lighten up after a drink and some snacks, but because the music was so soothing we both began to fall asleep at the bar! We left shortly after our cat nap and headed out to another restaurant where Andy and I spent the rest of the night telling each other the worst jokes either of us have ever heard. After that night the ice was definitely smashed. We continued to casually hang-out until the end of the month when he took me on our first official date. After that evening we were inseparable."

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Elisabeth and Craig
October 20, 2012

Elisabeth and Craig say, "We both attended Grinnell College in Iowa but it took 15 years for us to finally meet. We met at an alumni volunteer weekend in October of 2009! They were both living in the Bay Area, and after a whirlwind date that went from the Mission's Zeitgeist Bar to looking at the city from the Dolores Park heights, they never looked back."

"We believe in freedom and liberty for all, and as such, we think that all Americans should have the right to marry whomever they wish."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Matt and Tisa
October 21, 2012

Tisa says, "Matt and I met on OKCupid. Yes really! Apparently he had already seen my page at a friend’s house when I came upon his. I wasn't looking for romance, just networking. When I sort of stumbled upon his page I was humored by his response to one of the questions. He answered "thinking of things to write in these about me essays", when coincidentally I has written "Dodging about me essays" under a similar question. So I wrote him (even though we are 39% enemy) and we hit it off from there. We have so many awesome things in common and love just hanging out. He's my best friend. A marriage is only the beginning and we are so excited!"

They say, "We believe in the right to legally share in wedded bliss with whomever you love, regardless of sexual orientation or identification. We support equal human rights."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Natalie and Joe
October 21, 2012

After a courtship filled with bike rides, hot pepper sake, and unusually patterned socks, Joe and Natalie relocated from the Elm City to the Charm City, where they've enjoyed building a new home and life together.

Having already jointly purchased a food processor, they are well on their way to kitchen-appliance bliss. This November, they will have the opportunity to defend Maryland's Civil Marriage Protection Act at the ballot; they'd be honored to have friends and family join them in supporting marriage equality advocacy in their new home state and beyond.

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Matthew and Thomas
October 21, 2012

Matthew says, "Thomas and I met as friends a few years ago and became running partners. This blossomed into a best friendship, a love for one another, and a shared desire for a life together."

"We are fortunate to have a roof over our head, clothes to wear, and a little money in the bank. There are far greater missions such as the Human Rights Campaign that can work towards a greater good than even the finest Crate and Barrel gift card."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Jenna and Jane
October 27, 2012

"It all started with a wink..."

"But, before you get all impressed thinking Jenna had game, rest assured, it was an online wink-- a clever way of saying "hey I think you're cute" without having to really say as much. But there was this profile, brand shiny new... "I am looking for a warm person that knows and follows their heart. Someone that laughs easy and often." And, the single word upon which the wink could so perfectly hinge. Crossfit."

"Months, continents and forced communication stages went by until their fateful meeting, some six months later, when they lingered over kimchi tacos discussing football and family interchangeably. And when the taco truck pulled away and the roller-skaters had turned in their rental skates, they made their slow walk to the PATH train to part ways for Brooklyn and New Jersey."

"But, it was not without a moment. A flash of what was to come. Committed to the interwebs for all time or at least as long as one of their iPhones survived. Presume away. And so they did."

"While Jane and Jenna will benefit from the legal protections of NY State in the recognition of their marriage, the reality is that the majority of legal protections and benefits to marriage are conferred at the federal level. The very best gift that we could ever hope to receive is the same recognition for our relationship that our brothers, sisters and straight friends have today."

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Sarah and Kristen
October 27, 2012

Sarah and Kristen say, "We met playing rugby together over 6 years ago and can't imagine spending the rest of our lives with anyone else!"

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Laramie and Caleb
October 27, 2012

Laramie says, "We met in 2006, in a Karate class, where it was love at first sight; at least for me, since he later told me he did not like having more white belts to train! Our first date was a Karate tournament, where we had a blast! Ever since that day we have tried, and nearly succeeded, to never be apart! It was actually only a few months ago, about 7 years into our relationship, that I finally told him that I was Bisexual, turns out (by freak chance) he was too! It was something that I had not told anyone, and for him to be so accepting of me, made me fall in love with him again!"

Caleb says, "Now it’s my turn. Laramie has gotten me through several tough experiences in my life, and it means a lot to me that she has put aside so much just to keep me! One of our dates, early on in the relationship, was to go see the Last Mimzy, which was a terrible movie. But, the connection that we shared during it was one that I will never forget. However, the night that she finally broke down and told me that she was bi was one of the most relieving times in our relationship because it brought us that much closer to each other. We were able to help each other and now we are getting married in front of one of the prettiest rivers in MI. Because of our sexuality, it has become the inside joke between us that I am the girly one and she is the manly one! And the sad part is that it’s true!!"

"We want people to support this organization so that same-sex marriage can get passed throughout the US and the World. It is kind of sad that this is the 21st century and we are in a "free" country with something that cannot be done "freely". We want equality for everyone, not just a chosen few. Both of us want same-sex couples to have the same opportunity we are getting in October 2012. Please donate to this great cause to change history!"

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Gina and April
October 27, 2012

Gina and April say, "We met in October 2007 at a regular Friday night happy hour, there was an instant connection and we have been together ever since! It has been an exciting five years and we are looking forward to spending the rest of our lives together."

"We have been very fortunate to have a support network of good friends and family that will be able to celebrate our journey with us. Giving to the HRC to help with the continued fight for marriage rights will guarantee all of us the chance to live in equality."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Kelly and Rosa
October 29, 2012

Kelly and Rosa say, "We met in 2007 in Tomales Bay California round the oyster shucking table at a mutual friend's birthday bash. Kelly the shucking pro, inconspicuously started them for Rosa who was not having success. After a few, Rosa caught on that Kelly was looking after her best interest. For the rest of the evening, Rosa and Kelly bonded and the oyster tradition still lives on. Yearly Shuck-fest to celebrate 'love at first crack'!"

"The most important gift we can hope for from family and friends is the gift of their love and support. We ask that in lieu of a traditional wedding gift, a donation to HRC of any amount be considered on our behalf, to support the ongoing legal battle for marriage equality in California."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Andrew and Todd
November 2, 2012

Andrew and Todd say, "After 25 years together, we decided to support equal rights and marriage equality after it was made legal in New York State."

"We would like our friends and family to donate in our honor because it is our way of supporting The Human Rights Campaign promoting equal rights."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Anne and Scott
November 4, 2012

Anne's a Canadian banjo player, and Scott's an American fiddler. Together they say, "We've spent many a day playing tunes together, and with our many great friends in the old-time music community. And we're fortunate to have the option of choosing to live together in either country."

"If we were a same-sex couple, we could choose to get married and live in Canada, but not in the United States. We recognize that because American laws don't treat all partnerships equally, not everyone has the same degree of freedom to choose their life-path."

They would like their friends and family to donate in their honor because, "We'd like to help make equality a reality here, too."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Joe and Ilana
November 10, 2012

Joe and Ilana were summer camp sweethearts from a long way back. They fell in love at Camp Tavor, a camp in Three Rivers, MI and have enjoyed being with each other ever since.

Together they say, "We would like to acknowledge the privilege we have to get married by inviting our guests to donate to HRC in an effort to change policy towards marriage equality for all."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Andrea and Stas
November, 11, 2012

Andrea says, "When I walked into a bar and saw that tall drink of vodka sipping on a beer, I knew I was in trouble. One look from Stas and I knew I would be canceling the other dates I had that week. We've been inseparable since that first date. OkCupid.com brought us together, and love will keep us together forever."

"We love cuddling with books and our kitties, indulging in yummy food and laughing at trash TV. I can't picture my life without Stas or the goofy songs he sings to me. I am blessed to not only find, but to marry the man of my dreams."

"Had we met only decades ago, laws against interracial marriage would have kept us from marrying. That battle has been won, but the war for marriage equality continues. Stas and I share many core values and equality is our top passion (besides each other). While we are thrilled to be marrying each other, we are conscious of the reality that the rights and benefits of marriage are not given equally. It is our desire that our marriage help others in their fight for equality."

"While we love presents, we would love even more for there to be marriage equality. Please donate to the HRC."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Donald and Michael
November, 17, 2012

Donald and Michael say, "We met in May 2007 using an Internet dating site, as everyone does these days. By the time of our ceremony we will have been together over 5 wonderful years, and officially married just over one year. We obtained our official Marriage License from the state of New York in August of 2011. The irony of our union is that our commitment is recognized, in some form, by all the surrounding states, except our home state of Pennsylvania. It is for this reason we ask for your help and support in bring marriage equality to the state of Pennsylvania."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Edwin and Eric
December 6, 2012

Edwin and Eric met during a night on the town--they want to ensure all couples can celebrate their love and commitment so they have set-up a wedding registry to support HRC's work for LGBT equality.

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

Adam and Jason
December 9, 2012

Adam and Jason say, "We meet a few summers ago, and it was truly love at first sight. Less than six months later we had moved in together and began planning our wedding. It was not legal the first time we had a commitment ceremony but during our honeymoon we did get legally wed in Canada. This will be our 3rd ceremony and the 1st legal one in the U.S."

"We would like our friends and family to donate in our honor to the HRC because it is without question, the perfect gift!"

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

 

Anthony and Dominick
December 28, 2012

Anthony and Dominick say, "We were two lonely, disenchanted men looking for love in all the wrong places. We were sitting in a gay bar (imagine that!) and it was love at first sight! And, it hasn't stopped since."

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.

George and Hannah
December 31, 2012

George Pfau and Hannah Ireland fell in love in the midst of their grad-school experience at California College of the Arts. They became engaged during the solar eclipse on May 20th, 2012. Their hope is that your donation will help the legislative effort allowing people the right to marry whomever they choose.

To read more or make a donation on their behalf, please click here.